666: How to Ask for a Promotion | Deep Dive

Coping Strategies

Facing disappointment after being denied a promotion can be challenging, but it's crucial to manage emotions and strategize effectively. Gabriel Mizrahi emphasizes the importance of humility, patience, and openness when processing such setbacks. He advises accepting the decision and allowing oneself to feel emotions like anger or disappointment, as these are natural responses 1.

Rejection is never fun — we know that — but pushing back, getting resentful, or just giving up, that's not going to help matters and it'll make it a lot harder to find the hidden opportunity within the setback.

--- Gabriel Mizrahi

By maintaining a positive outlook and seeking constructive feedback, one can transform rejection into a stepping stone for future success 2.

   

Next Steps

After processing the initial disappointment, it's time to strategize the next steps. Gabriel Mizrahi suggests gathering specific feedback from managers to understand where improvements are needed and to develop an action plan 2. This proactive approach not only prepares you for future opportunities but also enhances your skills and visibility within the organization.

And from there, you're really back to stage one of the flywheel where your job is just to keep crushing it in your role again.

--- Gabriel Mizrahi

Jordan Harbinger adds that even if internal promotions are elusive, the skills and experiences gained can make you a more attractive candidate elsewhere, potentially leading to a more senior role at a new company 3.