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Published Sep 1, 2023

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Jordan Harbinger and Gabriel Mizrahi delve into the links between childhood trauma and addiction, offering insights into healing and personal growth. They also tackle the emotional and legal complexities of infidelity and family business conflicts, providing strategies for navigating betrayal and protecting relationships.
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  • Childhood Trauma

    Childhood trauma often lays the groundwork for addiction, as shares his own painful experiences. He recounts being bullied and humiliated, with his parents failing to protect him, which he believes contributed to his later addiction 1. Jordan Harbinger2. Jordan reflects on similar cases, noting that such trauma often leads to destructive behaviors 3.

    I wonder sometimes if me stealing from my parents was a way for me to get back at them for leaving me out there in the cold alone.

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    Gabriel's story highlights the complex interplay between unresolved childhood issues and addiction.

       

    Healing Wounds

    Healing family wounds is a crucial step in overcoming addiction. Jordan and Gabriel discuss the importance of sincere apologies and taking accountability for past actions. Gabriel suggests that an honest apology can mend relationships and help move past old grievances 4. Jordan emphasizes the need to separate the apology from justifications, focusing solely on taking responsibility 5.

    I am so sorry for what I did, and I hope when you're ready, you can forgive me.

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    This approach can pave the way for deeper healing and understanding within the family.

       

    Overcoming Addiction

    Overcoming addiction involves not only quitting substances but also addressing underlying issues. Gabriel shares his journey of rebuilding his life and relationships after addiction, highlighting the importance of confronting past mistakes 6. Jordan and Gabriel discuss the lingering pain and anger from childhood that can complicate recovery 7. They stress the need to acknowledge these emotions without letting them justify harmful behaviors 8.

    My parents didn't do right by me, so I used to cope with the pain and I stole from them.

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    This nuanced understanding helps in creating a balanced approach to recovery.

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