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Published Dec 20, 2019

292: My Wife Wants Another Kid, But I Don't | Feedback Friday

Join Jordan Harbinger and Jason DeFillippo on a compelling Feedback Friday as they navigate personal and professional dilemmas, from the decision to expand a family to balancing sibling weddings with work, managing financial tensions, and transitioning careers. This episode is packed with practical advice and emotional insights, perfect for anyone facing complex life transitions.
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  • Financial Stability

    The decision to have a third child involves multiple factors, including financial stability and personal happiness. shares a listener's concern about the financial implications and the potential impact on family life. advises evaluating whether the financial situation is truly dire or just a source of stress, and considering the long-term happiness of both partners.

    You have to actually work that stuff out.

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    He suggests making a detailed list of pros and cons to understand the full impact of this decision on the family's quality of life 1 2.

       

    Health and Goals

    Balancing health concerns and personal goals is crucial when deciding on family planning. Jordan emphasizes the importance of considering both short-term and long-term impacts on personal projects and career goals. He advises couples to have open discussions and possibly seek therapy to mediate these conversations.

    You really have to think about that.

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    Jason adds that if the desire for a specific gender is strong, adoption could be a viable option, highlighting the need to weigh emotional decisions against practical considerations 2 3.

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