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Published Feb 14, 2020

313: My Boyfriend’s Flirty Friend | Feedback Friday

Jordan Harbinger and Jason DeFillippo delve into managing challenging relationship dynamics, using technology to resolve financial issues, and navigating entry-level corporate success without a degree, offering practical advice for personal growth and professional efficiency.
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  • Flirtation Dynamics

    Navigating flirtation from a partner's friend can be tricky, especially when the friend is openly flirtatious. and discuss a listener's dilemma involving her boyfriend's friend who flirts with him in her presence. Jordan suggests that the boyfriend is likely aware of the flirtation, as he actively pushes the friend away, indicating he knows it's inappropriate 1. Jason agrees, noting that the boyfriend's past experiences with his ex-girlfriend likely make him aware of the situation 2.

    "You have to ask yourself, why are they friends? Here's my theory. She makes him feel good."

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    The hosts recommend discussing the issue with the boyfriend, encouraging him to consider how he would feel if roles were reversed 3.

       

    Silent Treatment

    Dealing with friends who give the silent treatment can be frustrating and emotionally draining. advises that while it's natural to want to resolve conflicts quickly, some people need time to cool off. He emphasizes respecting this need for space, but also warns against friends who use silence as a dramatic tool 4.

    "Many people will be embarrassed or consider the issue finished once they cool off."

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    Jordan suggests checking in with friends in a non-confrontational way to ensure the issue is resolved, and to evaluate the emotional maturity of those who frequently resort to the silent treatment 4.

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