152: How to Cope with a Schizophrenic Neighbor | Feedback Friday

Noisy Neighbors

Living with a noisy neighbor can be challenging, especially when mental health issues are suspected. Jordan Harbinger and Jason DeFillippo discuss the importance of documenting disturbances, such as loud arguments or music, to provide evidence if needed 1. They suggest taking baby steps before involving the police, like talking to management first. Jordan advises, "If she's threatening to hurt herself or anyone else, you can call the police," emphasizing the need for a documented record 1.

   

Police Interaction

The role of police in handling neighbors with mental health issues is a delicate matter. Jason DeFillippo explains the potential involvement of the Psychiatric Emergency Team (PET) if a neighbor poses a danger to themselves or others 2. Jordan highlights the importance of police intervention not just for noise complaints but for welfare checks, stating, "They might be the only person in the world that actually cares what happens to this person" 2. This underscores the need for careful consideration when deciding to involve authorities.

   

Mental Illness

Understanding mental illness is crucial when living near individuals who may be affected. Jordan Harbinger shares his evolved perspective on empathy for those with mental health challenges, noting the importance of putting oneself in their shoes 3. Jason DeFillippo recounts personal experiences with family members who had schizophrenia, emphasizing the need for sympathy and understanding. "You have to be sympathetic and empathetic about it," he states, highlighting the human aspect of these interactions 3.