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Published Oct 12, 2018

107: Stop Your Family from Believing Everything on the Internet | Feedback Friday

In this episode of 'Feedback Friday,' Jordan Harbinger and Jason DeFillippo tackle the pervasive issue of online misinformation affecting family beliefs, provide effective strategies to combat anxiety in high-pressure situations like sales and interviews, delve into the complexities of relationship power dynamics, and share firsthand insights on the enriching yet challenging experience of living abroad.
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  • Initial Excitement

    Living abroad initially feels like an adventure, filled with excitement and new experiences. shares that the first few weeks are often spent exploring and enjoying the novelty of a new environment. However, as weeks progress, the reality of isolation and homesickness can set in, especially if one hasn't established a social circle 1.

    After week one through three, you've done the shopping, you've gone to the museums, you've gone to the beach, you've gone and done some really touristy stuff.

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    By week 12, if efforts are made to integrate and build relationships, life abroad can become more fulfilling and routine 2.

       

    Social Integration

    Making friends in a foreign country requires proactive effort and openness to new experiences. Jordan emphasizes the importance of engaging in local activities and being open to different social settings, even those outside one's comfort zone 3. He reflects on his own experiences, noting that expecting others to make the first move can lead to feelings of isolation and resentment.

    I started going everywhere and doing everything, and that's when I started to be more social and make friends.

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    It's crucial to avoid projecting negativity or entitlement, as these attitudes can alienate potential friends 4.

       

    Coping Strategies

    Overcoming homesickness involves reducing reliance on social media and focusing on building a new life. Jordan advises limiting time spent on digital connections with friends back home, as it can exacerbate feelings of missing out and hinder local integration 5. Instead, he suggests channeling energy into forming new relationships and embracing the challenges of a new environment.

    You grow so much because you have to start everything over from scratch and you can't lean on your comfort zone.

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    Ultimately, the experience of living abroad is rewarding, offering personal growth and self-discovery beyond just cultural learning.

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