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Published Oct 4, 2019

260: How to Quit Your Prostitute Problem | Feedback Friday

Jordan Harbinger and Jason DeFillippo delve into overcoming compulsive behaviors and emotional struggles, offer practical career advice for executing ideas and managing toxic workplaces, and highlight the significance of community in finding purpose and passion.
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  • Compulsive Behavior

    and address a listener's struggle with compulsive behavior towards prostitutes. The listener, despite not enjoying the encounters, finds himself repeatedly engaging in this behavior, which is affecting his view of money and women 1. Jordan emphasizes the importance of therapy, noting that addiction is often a compulsion rather than something one enjoys 2.

    Addiction isn't necessarily something you love doing. It's a compulsion which is what sounds like this is.

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    He suggests seeking professional help to diagnose and address the underlying issues.

       

    Addiction Insights

    The hosts discuss the broader implications of addiction and compulsive behaviors. Jason suggests that the listener's issue might stem from loneliness rather than sex addiction, as true sex addicts typically find joy in their activities 3. Jordan agrees, recommending therapy as a healthier and more cost-effective solution.

    I can see that he's trying to fill a void that is putting a square peg in a round hole.

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    They also touch on social anxiety and the importance of addressing underlying emotional issues to prevent compulsive behaviors 4.

       

    Therapy Options

    Jordan and Jason explore various therapeutic approaches to combat compulsive behaviors. They discuss the potential benefits and limitations of support groups like Sex Addicts Anonymous, emphasizing the need for a proper diagnosis before joining 5. Jordan also recommends online therapy platforms like Better Help as a starting point for those hesitant to seek in-person therapy 6.

    This is not something you need to beat yourself up about. Just get ahead of it so that it doesn't start to dominate your life.

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    They highlight the importance of addressing these issues proactively to prevent long-term consequences.

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