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Published Dec 28, 2018

140: How to Warm up Cold Cliques | Feedback Friday

Explore expert tips on warming up cold cliques, navigating social events with ease, and boosting personal development through thoughtful networking and self-care strategies. Jordan Harbinger and Jason DeFillippo provide actionable advice for overcoming social anxiety, enhancing self-worth, and making seamless international transitions.
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  • Networking

    and discuss the importance of building a strong professional network, even when time is limited. They emphasize that networking doesn't require a lot of time and can be integrated into daily routines. Jordan suggests using the Six-Minute Networking drills to re-engage dormant ties and build a support network, highlighting that building relationships is a mandatory part of career development 1. He also touches on the complexity of finding one's purpose, noting that it's more nuanced than simply following one's passion 2.

    Building relationships and networks is not optional; it's a mandatory part of your career development.

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    They stress that personal accountability and proactive efforts are crucial for professional growth.

       

    Social Events

    Navigating social events can be challenging, especially when faced with cliquish behavior. Jordan and Jason share insights on overcoming these hurdles to build meaningful relationships. They advise taking the initiative to engage with others, even in unwelcoming environments, and emphasize that cliques are a natural social phenomenon 3. Jordan also shares tips on making friends in Germany, highlighting the importance of taking the first step and not taking rejections personally 4.

    It's not the case that people don't care that you exist; it's natural for people to want to hang out with their friends.

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    They encourage listeners to be proactive and resilient in social settings.

       

    Living Abroad

    Living abroad offers unique opportunities for personal and professional growth. Jordan and Jason provide advice on optimizing the experience and making connections in a foreign country. They recommend avoiding the ex-pat bubble, engaging in local activities, and learning the local language to fully immerse oneself in the new culture 5. Jordan also suggests practical steps like finding a local German teacher and participating in community events to build a network 6.

    Make an effort to connect with locals and practice the language; you'll start making a lot more local friends.

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    They highlight the long-term benefits of such experiences for both adults and children.

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