830: Terry Crews | On Hollywood, Harassment, and Healing

Toxicity

Terry Crews shares his journey of confronting toxic masculinity, a theme deeply rooted in his childhood experiences. He recalls the harsh environment created by his father, who ruled with intimidation, making Terry feel inadequate and constantly tested 1. This upbringing shaped his early adulthood, including his time in the NFL, where he felt pressured to conform to toxic male stereotypes.

I would definitely call myself a toxic male at one time, because playing in NFL, my time over there, it was major gut check time where everyone was testing your manhood.

--- Terry Crews

Despite these challenges, Terry realized the importance of building others up rather than tearing them down, a lesson that has significantly influenced his personal growth and approach to life 2.

   

Empathy

Terry Crews discusses how his challenging upbringing fueled his development of empathy and a more inclusive perspective. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing and uplifting those who are often told they won't succeed, drawing parallels to his role on "America's Got Talent" 3. Terry's personal experiences have taught him to appreciate the good times by contrasting them with the hardships he endured.

You have to experience the worst of times to realize when you're in the best of times.

--- Terry Crews

This mindset has driven him to go all in on his endeavors, whether in acting or personal projects, finding energy and motivation through commitment and passion 4.