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Published Feb 5, 2021

466: How to Cope with a Dying, Narcissistic Parent | Feedback Friday

Jordan Harbinger and Gabriel Mizrahi explore strategies for coping with dying narcissistic parents and emphasize the importance of setting personal boundaries. They also discuss the complexities of ending toxic relationships and offer practical advice for leveraging age in professional growth.
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  • Narcissistic Parents

    and explore the complexities of dealing with narcissistic parents, particularly when they are nearing the end of life. They discuss the emotional turmoil faced by those who have distanced themselves from such parents to preserve their sanity. The dilemma of whether to reconcile with a dying narcissistic parent is highlighted, with noting, "Opening myself up to her abuse again is going to cause me more pain than her actual death." 1 The conversation underscores the importance of self-awareness and clarity when navigating these challenging relationships 2.

       

    Boundaries

    Setting boundaries is crucial when dealing with difficult parental relationships, especially with narcissistic parents. emphasizes the need for clear boundaries, suggesting that one should be prepared to leave if those boundaries are violated. He advises, "If you're going to bring that stuff up, if you're going to make me feel bad, I'm going to have to leave." 3 This approach helps protect oneself from further emotional harm while allowing for a potential farewell that aligns with personal needs and limits 4.

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