1063: Working for Kin Might Just Do You In | Feedback Friday

Memory Concerns

Addressing memory concerns in loved ones can be challenging, especially when they refuse to acknowledge the issue. Gabriel Mizrahi shares a listener's story about her husband's frequent memory lapses, which have become a family concern 1. Jordan Harbinger suggests approaching the situation with compassion and patience, emphasizing the importance of involving family members in the conversation to highlight the seriousness of the issue 2.

You need to approach him in a way that, a, makes him understand why you're concerned, but b, doesn't freak him out too much.

--- Jordan Harbinger

By gently pointing out specific instances of memory lapses and expressing concern, the family can encourage him to seek professional help without feeling overwhelmed.

   

Denial & Communication

Denial can be a significant barrier when addressing memory issues in loved ones. Jordan Harbinger notes that denial often stems from fear of acknowledging a problem, which can hinder communication 3. Gabriel Mizrahi advises discussing how these memory lapses affect relationships and daily life, which might resonate more than simply insisting on medical intervention 4.

When you don't remember things accurately, it makes me worried. It makes me feel like I can't always trust your version of events.

--- Gabriel Mizrahi

By framing the conversation around personal impact rather than blame, it may be easier to break through denial and encourage a loved one to seek help.