56: How to Avoid the Psychic Con | Feedback Friday

Rapport

Maintaining rapport with authority figures like teachers can be beneficial yet challenging. Jordan Harbinger suggests using strategic interactions, such as asking for advice every couple of months, to keep in touch without crossing boundaries 1. This approach not only maintains a professional relationship but also creates opportunities for meaningful conversations. Jason DeFillippo agrees, emphasizing the importance of adding personal insights to interactions to keep them engaging and relevant 2.

It's much better than, “Hey, I just wanted to see how you were doing.”

--- Jordan Harbinger

By maintaining these connections, students can benefit from mentorship and potential recommendations while respecting the professional boundaries of their teachers.

   

Breakups

Ending mismatched relationships requires clear communication and firm boundaries. Jordan Harbinger advises being honest about differing priorities and values, while avoiding unnecessary explanations that may prolong the breakup process 3. He emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries to prevent ongoing emotional turmoil and suggests putting concerns in writing to avoid repeated discussions 4.

You're just hitting reset on the clock and keeping the wound fresh.

--- Jordan Harbinger

Jason DeFillippo highlights the significance of recognizing a values mismatch early, as it can lead to long-term dissatisfaction if not addressed 5.