564: A.J. Jacobs | It’s All Relative

Family Stories

A.J. Jacobs shares humorous and poignant stories from his quest to build the largest family tree. He recounts an amusing incident where he approached celebrities like Mark Wahlberg, claiming to be their cousin, only to be met with skepticism 1. These stories highlight the absurdity and joy in his genealogical adventures.

Even in the most inhumane circumstances, there is still humanity.

--- A.J. Jacobs

Jacobs also reflects on the sacrifices of his ancestors, sharing a moving story of his grandfather's experience during World War II, where a small act of kindness from a Nazi guard offered a glimmer of hope 2.

   

Cousin Marriage

The ethics of cousin marriage is a controversial topic that Jacobs explores with both humor and seriousness. Discovering that his wife is his distant cousin through a DNA test, he humorously suggests it might add spice to their marriage, though she disagrees 3.

If you do happen to fall in love with your first cousin, I do think you should be allowed to marry.

--- A.J. Jacobs

Jacobs delves into the historical context and ethics of cousin marriage, ultimately advocating for personal choice while acknowledging societal taboos 3.

   

Family Feuds

Jacobs discusses the famous Hatfield-McCoy feud, illustrating how even the most entrenched conflicts can find resolution. He recounts how the families eventually signed a peace treaty and celebrated with a reunion, opting for softball over violence 4.

If we can do it, anyone can do it.

--- A.J. Jacobs

This story serves as a metaphor for overcoming modern conflicts, emphasizing the potential for reconciliation and unity across divides 4.