723: Should I Relive the Drama of Childhood Trauma? | Feedback Friday

Emotional Toll

Jordan and Gabriel discuss the emotional toll of staying in a marriage that was never a good fit. They emphasize the strain of raising a child with special needs and how it can exacerbate existing issues. Jordan advises that sometimes leaving might be better for the children than staying in a toxic environment 1. Gabriel highlights the role of values and devotion, noting that these can complicate the decision to leave 2.

Your kid's having a dad who lives under the same roof, but gives one-word answers at the dinner table and is always walking around the house, just seething with resentment.

--- Jordan Harbinger

They suggest therapy as a way to navigate these complex emotions and decisions.

   

Practical Aspects

The hosts delve into the practical aspects of leaving a marriage, especially when children are involved. Gabriel reads a listener's letter detailing a marriage that started out of necessity rather than love, highlighting the challenges of such a union 3. Jordan and Gabriel discuss the importance of self-improvement and maintaining personal well-being, even in difficult circumstances.

I believe I have a long life ahead of me and could find a better partner for me, but I dread the impact that divorce will have on the kids.

--- Listener's Letter

They advise that while divorce is painful, it might be the best option for long-term happiness and health.