59: How to Make It Clear You Just Want to Be Friends | Feedback Friday

Online Dating

Navigating the world of online dating can be both exciting and challenging. Jason DeFillippo shares a listener's experience of relying on Tinder due to a busy schedule and limited social circle, yet struggling to find meaningful connections 1. Marni Kinrys suggests that the issue may not be the app itself but rather the approach to using it. She advises being more intentional with selections and exploring real-world opportunities to meet people 2.

I think that there's other things that she might need to perfect and focus on first before deleting the app and blaming not getting good matches.

--- Marni Kinrys

Jordan Harbinger adds that joining clubs or classes can be a productive way to meet new people while also gaining new skills.

   

Cohabitation

Moving in with a partner at a young age brings its own set of anxieties and considerations. Jason DeFillippo discusses a listener's concerns about cohabitating with her boyfriend in a new city, highlighting the challenges of such a significant step at 22 3. Marni Kinrys emphasizes the importance of communication, suggesting regular meetings to discuss both positive and challenging topics as a way to maintain a healthy relationship 4.

We were able to calmly talk about it and not let emotions run wild.

--- Marni Kinrys

Jordan Harbinger advises that while cohabitation can be beneficial, it's crucial to have a support network and personal space to ensure a balanced life.