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Published Feb 16, 2018

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Join Jordan Harbinger and Jason DeFillippo as they delve into overcoming life's challenges, the power of truth, and the nuances of podcasting while offering practical guidance on navigating family complexities and fostering strong, honest relationships.
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  • Starting Fresh

    Starting fresh can be both exciting and daunting. and discuss their journey of launching a new show from scratch, emphasizing the importance of rebuilding trust and audience. Jason shares his personal story of rescuing a Rottweiler, which taught him valuable lessons about starting anew and overcoming challenges 1. Jordan highlights the need for honesty and taking responsibility to rebuild trust, drawing from his own experiences 2.

    It took years to rebuild their trust. I lost a decade of a relationship with my dad that I didn’t have to because I was just weak and did not want to own up to the things that I’d done.

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    The duo also stresses the importance of community support in rebuilding their audience and the intimidating task of starting over 1.

       

    Social Anxiety

    Dealing with social anxiety requires creative approaches and persistence. Jordan shares a unique method he used to overcome his social anxiety by wearing a kangaroo suit to a bar, which forced him to interact with people and get comfortable with attention 3. This unconventional tactic helped him reinvent himself socially and build confidence.

    I wore the suit because I was scared to death of attention, and wearing the suit made it unavoidable that I would get attention.

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    He emphasizes that small changes in appearance or behavior can significantly impact social interactions and help individuals step out of their comfort zones 4.

       

    Social Interactions

    Reinventing social interactions often involves navigating complex social dynamics. Jordan discusses the challenges faced by a woman who feels out of place in her boyfriend's social circle, highlighting the importance of finding new connections and activities to avoid isolation 5. He advises making a list of skills and activities to learn, and joining classes or groups to meet new people and build a supportive social network 6.

    I would try making some other friends as well. I don’t think the toothpaste goes back in the tube on this one very easily.

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    This approach helps individuals maintain their social well-being and prevent feelings of loneliness or exclusion.

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