Helplessness and Affairs
Linda emphasizes the importance of agency over one's life and the danger of victim consciousness. She suggests seeking help to address the root issues of destructive behavior, as exemplified by the woman who casually mentions her affair as a symptom of her helplessness.In this clip
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53: Feedback Friday | How to Stop Being a Victim
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So what can somebody about that? If they find themselves feeling like they're out of control, you said get some help ASAP. What does somebody even do? Just go grab a therapist and say, look, I've got all these problems I've created for myself.