332: Rachael Denhollander | What Is a Girl Worth?

Abuse Tactics

Rachael Denhollander sheds light on the manipulative tactics used by abusers like Larry Nassar, who exploited the trust of parents and the guise of medical treatment to perpetrate abuse. She explains how Nassar's sleight of hand and constant conversation served as misdirection, making it difficult for victims and observers to recognize the abuse happening right in front of them 1. This manipulation extended beyond the victims to the community, creating a persona that seemed incapable of such acts 2. Rachael emphasizes the need for cultural awareness of these tactics, as they often lead to disbelief when victims come forward 3.

Abusers are skilled manipulators and they are able to create circumstances that make it seem impossible to abuse because they know it's going to invoke the response. That's not possible if someone tries to disclose.

--- Rachael Denhollander

The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing grooming behaviors and understanding how abusers create environments that protect them from suspicion.

   

Institutional Failures

The discussion reveals the systemic failures of institutions like Michigan State University and USA Gymnastics in addressing reports of abuse. Rachael Denhollander recounts how officials ignored or actively silenced victims, allowing Nassar to continue his abuse unchecked for decades 4. She highlights the uphill battle victims face in seeking justice, with a staggering low rate of convictions for reported rapes and sexual abuses 5. This institutional negligence not only enabled Nassar but also reflects a broader cultural issue where victims' voices are often dismissed.

Out of every 300 rapes reported to the police, only about six results in criminal charges, only five results in jail time.

--- Rachael Denhollander

Rachael underscores the need for systemic change to ensure that victims are heard and justice is served, emphasizing the importance of believing and supporting those who come forward.