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Criticism

Handling online criticism requires a strategic approach to maintain self-esteem. Jordan Harbinger emphasizes the importance of perspective, noting that the vocal minority of critics often overshadows the silent majority who appreciate your work 1. He advises against letting negative comments dictate your mood or self-worth, suggesting instead to focus on creating more content and ignoring the trolls 1. Harbinger shares his personal experience with criticism, acknowledging that while it can be bothersome, it's crucial not to let it define your self-perception 2.

You have to choose to live by your own standards and not let all of these random anonymous opinions dictate your mood or your feelings about your work.

--- Jordan Harbinger

This mindset helps in maintaining a positive outlook and continuing to produce meaningful work.

   

Trolls

Dealing with trolls online can be challenging, but Jordan Harbinger suggests a combination of empathy and strategic ignorance. He points out that trolls often act out due to personal issues, and sometimes responding with empathy can lead to surprising turnarounds 3. However, he also recommends ignoring baseless negativity, especially from anonymous sources, to maintain mental health 3. Gabriel Mizrahi adds that the anonymity of the internet often brings out the worst in people, making it essential to filter out harmful comments to protect one's passion and creativity 4.

The anonymity of the Internet just gives rise to some of the worst impulses in people.

--- Gabriel Mizrahi

This approach helps creators focus on their work without being derailed by negativity.